SOLD OUT - Femmes On Top - January 2024

What: Femmes On Top

Where: Gallery Erato - 309 1st Ave S.

When: 8:00 p.m. - midnight

Cost: $30 (sliding scale available)

*Tickets must be purchased online, there are no door sales*

Are you ready for a party that is so fetch? Femmes On Top is back, and Mean Girls is our January theme! That's right, the hot, popular girls are in charge of this month's party, and they want you to know that on Wednesdays (and on January 19!), we wear pink. 

This BDSM-focused party celebrates feminine power in all its forms. We welcome Mistresses, Mxtresses, Dommes, fem Tops, and all their submissives, bottoms, admirers, and followers. For January, we are especially excited to welcome cool moms (not regular moms), hot goth outsiders like Janis, and all mean girls of every type, Regina George-inspired or otherwise. The theme is meant to inspire, not prescribe, so please feel free to come as you are! Wear whatever makes you feel sexy, even if it's just a pair of mouse ears and a tiny black dress like Karen Smith. (She was a mouse, duh!) 

Femmes On Top features a social-only hour from 8-9pm on the main floor of the Gallery with an optional icebreaker game for attendees, while play is welcome downstairs all night from 8pm to midnight. A meet-and-greet board and special flagging supplies will be available to help folks mingle and socialize.

This queer-friendly party welcomes attendees of all genders and sexual orientations; trans and gender non-conforming attendees are especially encouraged to attend. 

Want to get in touch with the champions for party-specific questions? Email: femmesontop@thecspc.org

Want to come? Purchase your tickets online!

Tickets are only available through online purchase, we do not sell tickets at the door. Registration for this party is limited to a maximum of 140 tickets. Click here for information on our refund policy.

What to expect upon arrival:

• All attendees are required to show a valid government-issued ID. If you do not bring your ID or it is expired we cannot admit you.
• Wearing a KN95/N95 or equivalent mask will be required at the party at all times other than when eating/drinking, or when engaged in a scene. If you leave the scene you're in temporarily (e.g. to take a restroom break) please mask up first.
• Guests will need to fill out a guest form and a waiver.
• Please review our Essential House Rules and share them with your guests.
• Please arrive in street legal attire.
• There is a coat closet on the main floor and lockers in the basement which can be secured with padlocks (please bring your own padlock if you wish to use one).

What to bring with you:

• Your valid legal ID and a mask
• Whatever makes you feel sexy and confident. Don’t forget your toy bag!
• A reusable water bottle for refilling at our water station
• We invite you to bring your own clean sheets and towels to use, as that helps us keep down our laundry costs.

What we provide:

• Safer sex supplies, cleaning supplies, clean sheets and towels
• Light snacks for keeping energy up

Directions and Parking:

• Gallery Erato is located at 309 1st Ave S. There is a pay parking lot along our north wall.
• Pioneer Square has free on-street parking after 6 p.m. (more info about street parking here) and paid parking lots, which you can find listed here.
• This neighborhood is very well served by public transportation, including many bus lines, the streetcar, and the LINK light rail.

Accessibility:

• There is a small lip from the sidewalk into the Gallery. We have a wheelchair ramp that our registration volunteers can put down to transition over this lip so that our main floor will be accessible to folks in wheelchairs. Please let us know when you arrive if you need the ramp.
• There will be play stations, refreshments, and restrooms on the main floor. Unfortunately, the basement of our space is only accessible via stairs.
• Restrooms are gender neutral, and can be found on both floors.
• This is not a scent-free space.

Have more questions? Check out our FAQ! We are a 100% volunteer-run organization, so it helps us immensely if you check the FAQ before emailing us. Thank you!